My father my guide…
by Ahmad Safi
People have lately been discovering Ibne Safi as a reformer and finding out about his services in this regard through his writings. As a son I witnessed this side of his personality very closely. Abbou [Father] was a reformer indeed.
I remember, during the few months break that I got after my F.Sc. exams, I took to the leftist thought and literature. This was mainly under the peer influence. Like many of my close friends, I started learning more about Communist and Socialist movements. In the late seventies the relevant literature was readily available and to be interested in such things was in vogue.
In our household we were allowed to read any kind of books we wanted. There were no restriction and we never had to hide any books we were reading. One day Abbou saw me setting some books on shelf. Those were by and about Vladimir Lenin, the Russian revolutionary, politician and political theorist. Upon Abbou’s enquiry, I told him I was particularly impressed by Lenin’s policy on dissemination of education and thought this could be adapted for Pakistan. I said this and some more on the topic just to impress him but he cautioned me softly. He told me not to be impressed by any literature or ideology without first checking out what our religion had to offer. According to him this would give me something for comparison – and then I should be free to form any opinions and make decisions accordingly.
I thank Abbou for putting me on the right path. I took the advice and found out that indeed I had a very rich religious tradition and all other isms and ideologies proved to be mere subsets in terms of thought and ideas.
I see this character in his writings all the way as well. He never pushed his ideas on his readers but showed them the path and educated them. That is why his readers could make intelligent decisions and take the ownership of those too.
What a role-model for us all -- your father -- in his grounded yet non-controlling guidance.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reminding us how best to parent and to be.
Greetings,
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for this nice post.
This post follows "Father's Day" here in the States (just this last weekend). It's a time at which fathers are recognized.
I greatly admire Ibne Safi's openness, as well as his encouragement at referencing one's religion as a touchstone for isms.
What a fine man and father is recognized here!
All good wishes,
robert
it’s extremely important to know ones religion but it is also extremely important to know both/and rather merely either/or. Thanks Ahmad Sahib for sharing this beautiful anecdote.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad because you had mentioned Ibne Safi to me,but I ignored it, only because his novels had scary titles.I know I should change my opinion and get his books.The books are available at 786 book store on line.I intend to get them and read them.Although I let it go for a while,I sure will get his books and read them as soon as I get them.I know I pushed myself aside,I know better now.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for posting this.
What a thought-provoking and touching piece. Thanks for sharing with us, sir.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sir for this. :)
ReplyDeleteThanx so much for the mention of online bookstores, Chaman and for your qualifying yet compatible comment Dar Sahib!
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